When To Talk To An Ex About Getting Back Together?


So how do you know when to talk to an ex about getting back together? This is a very common question that people in my newsletter ask me. Obviously, There is no exact amount of days after a breakup to know when to start talking to them. Everyone is in a different situation therefore, it has to be a judgment call.

However, right after a breakup is NOT a time when to talk to an ex about getting back together. After the breakup, there will be very high tension between the two of you. This means that whatever you say, regardless of your intention, will make them even more angry, hurt, or upset. The time period were you have the most tension for each other is usually between 1-2 weeks after the breakup.

During this time after the breakup you need to have ZERO contact with your ex. This is a common method and it’s called the “no contact method”. Why this works is because after a week or two goes by with no contact, your ex will begin to miss you and be dying to talk with you. After using the no contact method for a week or two, is a great time when to talk to an ex about getting back together.

How To Talk To An Ex About Getting Back Together?

This part is CRUCIAL for how to get back together with your ex. Here are some of the MAJOR problems people make when they try contacting there ex after a breakup.

  • The worst possible way of communicating with your ex after a breakup is Texting And Emailing. Texting someone or emailing them asking them about getting back together with a HUGE mistake. There are NO feelings in a text or email. They can’t hear your voice and your feelings. Heck, they don’t even know for sure if you were the one who sent the message!
  • After a breakup, chances are your feeling a little depressed, sad, and lonely right? So what do you do? Yup, go out to the bars and drown yourself in alcohol. Of course you know that drinking is not good for you health but here’s the big problem…when you drunk, YOU DON’T THINK! This means you will end up randomly calling your ex and just try to start a fight over the phone. This is what I call “Drunk Dialing” and is obviously NOT how to talk to an ex about getting back together.

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